Friday, January 4, 2019
New Year with a New Look and Exciting Changes
Monday, December 31, 2018
That's a wrap for 2018!


So, now that you are facing the end of another year and looking at the fresh start of a new one, what is your focus? What is/are your goal(s)? Take the steps to think about it, write it down so that you're holding yourself accountable, and make it happen! We are looking forward to sharing new things to come here at Porch Swings & Sweet Tea so have a seat in a swing, have a sweet tea and stay tuned.
As always, thank you for taking time to stop by our blog and Happy New Year!
Wednesday, December 12, 2018
Cold Weather + Excess Water = Nothing Good!
One particular chilly morning as I was watching the morning show they put on for me, I noticed steam coming from underneath the front porch. Glenn came to take a look and said it was probably the dryer vent underneath leaking the heat. We didn't think another thing about it until our local meter reader rang the doorbell a few days afterwards. He asked me if I was running any water at the moment. I told him the dishwasher was running but that was all. He stood there and thought a moment and asked if we watered cattle. No, I told him we didn't water cattle, the cattle in the pasture weren't ours. He then proceeded to tell me that we had used 40,000 gallons of water in the past month and I just about fell over. HOUSTON, we have a BIG Problem!!! He said, "Ma'am, you most definitely have a leak somewhere between the meter and your house." Wow, I'd say problem. We haven't EVER used that much water.
Moral to this story? Don't just assume steam under the porch is nothing to check out.
Hope all of you have a warm, safe and dry Merry Christmas!
Monday, November 5, 2018
Women Warriors touch my heart...MUST READ!
Shalee Fore (PA) - https://www.facebook.com/shaleesmakeupempire/
Melissa Marshall (AR) -https://www.facebook.com/melissa.marshall.2013 her order site is http://www.hempworx.com/mamarshall
Both of these women are entrepreneurs that are amazing and positively motivating.
Melissa, a wife and mother, shares health products and well-being tips while proving it works with her family at that same time. She is a voice of truth and experience because the results are in the videos shes shares. My hat is off to her. I'm so proud of her conquering her goals like a Boss(of course she is the boss)!
Shalee, also a wife and mother, is sharing beauty tips and makeup tutorials while boosting confidence for other struggling women. She's so personable and comical to boot. It's not all candy and roses. Life is a struggle and Shalee shares it with her viewers. That's real.
Both have overcome obstacles that would have made me crawl back in bed, cover my head and cry while stuffing Oreos in my mouth. They are strong, courageous and warrior-minded; especially when it comes to their children. I can't say enough GREAT things about these two women. They both make my heart smile when they speak of new goals being accomplished. They both defeat the odds on a daily basis. Some days are epic fails, but giving up isn't an option for either. God put this on my heart today and so I am sharing with you.
I encourage you to go watch their videos and see their life struggles and how they help to boost the morale of those that need a hand up. They are both true Woman Warriors!
As always, thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog. I hope this lifts your spirits today and encourages you to pay it forward for someone else.
Thursday, November 1, 2018
Fall colors, Halloween rain, and a Cold start to November
See the warm glow of the walls. These walls mesmerize me. I absolutely LOVE them. Once the room is finished, pictures will be posted here and on my Facebook page. So, stay tuned for updated pictures. If you love the "outdoors-lodge" theme, you'll love how this turned out.
Meanwhile, I would love to share some colorful fall photos taken on a hike my husband and I enjoyed last weekend. Weather forecasters were warning us that our current cold snap was on its way, so we jumped on the chance to get out and explore this outside panorama of color.
These pictures are just a small portion of what I call my outdoors home. I love where we live and am blessed to have this beauty close by. Rain or shine, these hills never disappoint with their display of beauty. No matter the season, it is always breathtakingly spectacular. Until my next adventure.....stay tuned!
As always, thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog. Have a blessed day!
Monday, October 15, 2018
Welcoming cooler weather and wood smoke......again
Yesterday we enjoyed a wonderful sermon at church and returned home to ready the yard and outside areas for colder weather. Hanging baskets were discarded. The overgrowth between the shop and the house removed with the tractor and taken to our burn pile. It looks much cleaner now.
Glenn began to work on our wood stove by cleaning out the huge pile of ashes and debris left from previous use and fixed a few things here and there. He began to split some kindling and crumple newspaper for a test fire. My heart skipped a beat when I saw what he was doing. There is a story behind why I get so happy and emotional about a wood stove fire. If you have time, today is the perfect day to tell you a story. So, here goes....
Many years ago when we were dating, where we live now was my husband's home place. His mom lived here with Glenn many years after her husband passed away in 1983. It was only the two of them after that day. They were each other's support through the good times and the bad. Then I came into the picture. His mom welcomed me into her home with a great big smile and always a hug. She was put in my life for a reason only God knows. I'm thankful for my short time with her and glad she loved me from day one.
In the winter time she had a wood burning furnace for her main source of heat and a wood stove in her den. During the cold weather after a ballgame we would stop by his house to visit awhile. She would have her stove fired up and my heart would melt. The smell of the burning wood in her cozy home just made me smile. It was comforting and somehow I felt like I was where I was supposed to be. I could live there all winter and be as tickled as a kid on Christmas morning. Something about the love she shared so willingly, along with the smell of wood smoke had me hooked...oh and her son of course. I was definitely smitten with him too! This is where I loved to spend most of my winters and can you blame me? I mean I had the best of both worlds here. A peaceful, quiet country setting with a cozy, warm home with the scent of wood smoke at every breath. All the synonyms for happy and content would describe my feelings.
We eventually married and moved away. As his mom got older in years, the wood fires in the magnificent old stove were fewer and far between. She eventually installed gas vented stoves to heat and the wonderful wood smoke scent I had loved so dearly was a mere flicker here and there. My heart was sad, but we understood her situation. She just couldn't keep up with the manual labor of hauling in the wood and throwing it in the fire when it was down to coals. It was just a fact of life "us kids" (that's what she always called us) had to accept. And, accept it we did. We always managed to squeeze in a few weekend stays during the cold winter months. While there, we were able to bring the wood stove back to life with a crackling fire. I oftentimes thought I might have had something to do with that, or maybe it was God putting the fire back in our hearts just a little while longer. Who knows. I cherished each visit, not just because I loved the smell of the burning wood wafting throughout the house, but I'd really cherished time with his mom. She taught me more and more about life with each visit through the years. She shared her wisdom and life experiences that most times left me in awe. I was left amazed at her way of life as a child. It was much more difficult than our generation. But, it was what it was and they did what they did because that's how life was. To hear her speak of it, she loved every minute because her home was filled with love, respect and discipline.
When God called her home, it was a huge loss for the entire family. In time, her home became run-down and unlivable. We purchased the house back to stop the destruction of such a valuable gem. It took us several years to repair the damage and bring the house back to life. We attempted to salvage what we could. Almost everything inside was destroyed, burned, sold or simply gone. This now brings me back to the wood stove. We were able to salvage the wood stove that sat in the den for many, many years. My heart is happy! We will be moving it back in the den where it belongs. The wood smoke will resurrect the memories in my mind of a simpler time in life. It will most likely bring tears to my eyes, but they will be welcomed because the memories are wonderful! I miss his momma and the wood smoke will lend her back to me for a little while. But, I'll take it with a smile on my face!
I'm so honored that you have taken time out of your day to stop by my blog. I hope that your Monday is a great one!
Wednesday, October 10, 2018
Goodbye Summer.....Hello fall, a 16 year-old, and hurricane season!
I was absent for much of these beautiful days due to my surgery recovery. It has been a struggle to recover and not go crazy. I'm not a good patient when it comes time to lay back and let time heal your wounds. I'm the caretaker of the family, not the patient. But, recovery goals are coming along slow but sure. Stepping out on our porch to take in nature's beauty has been more and more frequent now that the heat has subsided a bit. Each time I step out on the porch, it is like a time warp. I don't know if it's just the thought of leaving the chaos and noise of reality at the door or what, but time seems to slow down and reality becomes a blur. It's relaxing to slow down and listen to the conversations of nature and tune out the constant bickering of politics. It's as if you have escaped the drama and political madness of the world and peacefulness has enveloped your soul. Upon closed eyes, you can envision your own temporary reality where the rippling waters of the nearby creek almost lull you into a slumber, or the melodious songs of the birds take you to a whole new level of tranquility. This porch is magical and I can't help but sing from the rooftops about it. Everyone in this day and age needs a porch like this! Go get you one!
Now that I have you calm, relaxed, and ready to sip from your warm cup of coffee or tea, I'll update you with our latest adventures in our neck of the woods. Last I updated, we were enjoying our anniversary celebration and watching a baseball game with some dear friends. Not too soon after that, our son Zane had a birthday and it was a milestone birthday. It was his 16th birthday! He has been chomping at the bit to drive since before he was fourteen and he hasn't stopped talking about it. He has always been a talker; just like his dad. So, every conversation would start with, "when am I going to get a truck?", "when I get my truck.....", "am I getting a truck?", etc. You get the picture. It was all about trucks and everything he wanted to put in it, add to it, and make it cool. When he realized that all the "extras" he wanted cost money, they began to disappear from his want list to the point that it was just a running truck was all he wanted. So, that is what he received. He's been tickled with it since he got it. No surprises, no party, just a truck. He wanted it that way...much different that his older sister. He's been driving it non-stop, but he is now becoming frugal with the traveling due to gas prices. He is responsible for buying his gas except for two tanks a month provided by us. Now that he has realized that trucks use gas quicker than he expected, he's been on the hunt for a job to help fund his fuel and his "extras" list. This is a great learning tool for him. He is learning the value of money and how fast it goes when you "want" things instead of "need" things. My reply to his woes of life is, "welcome to reality son". And, I say it with a smile. This new found freedom has also taken a lot of strain off of us. He can drive himself to ball games, evening events he attends, etc. Or, we use him as an errand boy! But, when we do that, we pay him gas money-it's only fair in our opinion.
Since his birthday blew in like a welcomed summer storm, we've also had the annual hurricane call of duty for Glenn. Each year when hurricane season opens and the U.S. coasts are pummeled by high winds, flooding, and stranded home-owners, Glenn and his fellow workers with MIB-Fresenious Kidney Care Disaster Response Team work hand in hand with Fresenious Kidney Care Centers to secure any affected centers in the path of the hurricane. The duties range from guarding dialysis clinics, guiding/escorting fuel tankers, rescuing trapped patients, getting patients to and from dialysis clinics for treatment, and making sure the clinic employees are able to get to and from work safely. You name it, they make it happen. Kudos to the dangerous work they do without hesitation! My hat is off to all of them for working in such dangerous and some times deadly conditions. I and many others are very proud of them for all the work they do!
I'm so honored that you have taken time out of your day to visit my blog! And from my family to yours, have a GREAT day!
Monday, August 6, 2018
Happy 27th Anniversary!
The game was great, even though we lost to the Arkansas Naturals. We laughed, visited and watched the firework show they put on at the end of the game.
Wednesday, July 25, 2018
There's a new Sheriff in town
With all the excitement of the election primary and then a run off, I failed to reveal that my husband won his election. He is currently working on many issues and ideas that were a part of his campaign proposals. He is very busy learning the role and preparing for a smooth transition into the Sheriff's role.
Stay tuned for more updates on our new adventures and our crazy ride on the roller coaster called life.
Wake up Call
I posted this shortly after surgery and wanted to share my story of surgery recovery with you.
Enjoy!
This morning I made my way outside to water my flowers and that fete in itself wore me out. I’m very weak and that is something this girl isn’t used to at all. Usually I’m going 110 mph 24/7, but I hit a wall with this small task. The situation with my neck has set me back further than I thought it would - I suppose I thought I’d bounce right back.
I’m normally a go-getter who takes care of everything and everyone. But, not this time. I’m on the other end of this spectrum and I’m trying to adjust to this new position; It’s hard. Glenn keeps telling me I have to slow down, let pain be my guide and other tidbits of advice. But, I’m hard headed and think I’m invincible. Now, though, God has shown me this is definitely not the case at all. He’s put me in my place a time or two since I’ve been home and basically shown me that I am NOT invincible, I DO need to slow down and let my body heal itself. Patience is a true virtue and something I don’t have enough of, but It appears I’m going to have to be during this process.
When I became worn out this morning, Glenn quickly guided me to the living room to sit to enjoy the life thriving outside our picture windows and brought me a cup of coffee as he continued getting ready for his day at work. He’d pop in and out just checking on me and making sure I was okay and not going to pass out again, like I had a couple of days before. (Most of that experience is a blur to me.) I reassured him I was okay each time, so he continued his routine.
This slow down allowed me time to reflect and think in the quiet. I was able to ponder situations that occurred in that house many years before, when Glenn’s mom was there during her many medical situations. After her many urgent medical procedures, heart surgeries, and so forth, how did she feel? How did she heal? Did she realize how serious her situation was? Did she cry? Was she scared? Could I have done more to be there for her? I will always question if I could have done more because of all she did for us without question.
I say all that to say this; we all live only once, we only have one chance to live our lives to the fullest, to enjoy it, to embrace it, to embrace others, to make the right decisions in life, to do the RIGHT things in life. Each decision takes you on a different path in life and each decision is your own. One wrong decision and the end to your story of life is changed completely. You can make it right again, but you have to be aware of this and seek a better solution to get back on track.
I encourage each of you, if you aren’t in a good relationship-GET OUT! But, make a clean break, don’t be petty. Leave the drama to TV. It’s not worth the drama. Be the mature, Godly person and just step away from the situation. If you aren’t in a good friendship-end it cordially and be upfront about why. Find your inner happy person that you were, or are, and get back to being that person. Be YOU, not who everyone else wants you to be. If you aren’t true to yourself, you can’t be true to everyone else.
This surgery, as you can tell, has really helped me to realign what is important in my life. I have very little time on this Earth to make a difference and it’s time for a positive turn to help others, help my family and friends, but first I’m looking at myself in the mirror and asking God to help me to find my true self. Only then I can begin to help not only myself, but others He brings into my life.
I had asked my neurosurgeon, Dr. Evans if they could take pictures of the surgery. I’m weird like that because I’m curious as to what happens to my body. They, of course, said they couldn’t photograph it for me. So when he came to check on me the next day, I asked him to explain in detail what he had done.
Dr. Evans said that it was a very serious surgery to fix some very serious problems. My spinal column and a large bone spur were against my spinal cord in places, so he had to literally saw the bone away, relieve pressure between vertebrae and do other in-depth procedures. Talk about some Godly interventional wisdom and guidance of his hands! One wrong move and I could have been paralyzed forever. He said one very serious spot that had been causing a lot of my arm pain and weakness was a spur that was right against the nerves at the C6-C7 junction. While he was sawing away the spur from the nerve, my arm would twitch and jump on the table. The nerve had been so impeded by the spur that it was transferring the vibration of the instruments through the bone and stimulating the nerves. He also said that the nerves had been so restricted before that the sudden release of the pressure also caused some of the reaction. He added two titanium plates and screwed them down once all the repair work was done then closed the incision inside with stitches and glue on the outside.
I don’t remember much when I was coming out of the anesthesia, I’m sure I said some funny things and I had a very severe sore throat. Both the intubation and the act of accessing the spine through the front of my neck, requiring them to push my esophagus and everything else aside contributed to the irritation, soreness and swelling. Forgive me, Brother Andrew and whoever else that was in the room, for what I might have said in that post-operative, drug induced hazed.
Going into any surgery, I have a fear of not waking up; this time was no exception. I guess since I did wake up, God must not be not done with me yet. So, since you all know how emotional I was, and am and now that I’m resetting to a new more positive path in my life, you all can keep me in check. Because we all stumble. It’s just having the right people around you to wipe away the tears and pick you back up with encouragement to continue on your way.
Tuesday, May 15, 2018
Nearing Election Day and surgery day
This morning was crisp and cool after the rain from last night. The sun was hiding behind the clouds and the birds were basking in the cool air. They have been fluttering and feeding and chattering amongst each other. The creek below is singing my song as it flows through each verse of peace and relaxation. Life is peaceful here on the home front today.
The campaign is in high gear and Glenn is ramping up his campaign and reaching out door to door when he isn't working, doing podcasts to let the voters hear his words of encouragement and forward thinking. We are keeping a forward motion on this until the very last day, which is election day May 22.
We are also preparing for my cervical spine surgery, which is set for May 25th. It will be a four level fusion of C3-C7. This will be a very serious and long surgery, but much needed to help repair degenerative disc disease that is more advanced than should be at my age. I also have bulging discs and pressure on my spine which is causing myolopathy.
I will post again with the results of the election and again once I have recovered from surgery enough to blog again.
On a good note, school is almost out and Zane couldn't be more excited to sleep in and enjoy the spoils of summertime fun.
Hope all of you have a great day!
Below is the podcast link copy and paste to watch:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=321210258414118&id=292471364621341
Friday, April 13, 2018
Windy Trails
Thursday, April 5, 2018
Welcome to Porch Swings & Sweet Tea!
I have been anxious to get this blog up and running so I can share with each of my readers a piece of our life. Our home county and our southern way of life is as the title of this blog suggests; It's usually a peaceful and relaxing lifestyle and location where spring and summer are filled with the sweet smell of flowers and the air is often heavy with the scent of freshly fallen rain. A favorite pastime is sitting on the front porch swing, sippin' sweet tea and listenin' to the flowing creek down by the bridge in our front yard.
We enjoy life with friends and family and love sharing stories of not only days gone-by, but recounting current events so that our future generations know where their families came from and how the way of life has evolved through the generations.
So, with that being said, let me introduce our family that will be mentioned on this blog from time to time.
- Me- Stacey: The Matriarch of the family
- Husband- Glenn: The Patriarch of the family (currently running for our county Sheriff)
- Daughter #1- Beth: Graduated from college and living life to the fullest. Obtained her dream job and her dream vehicle (Red Jeep Wrangler) She's a very outgoing independent woman and we are very proud of her and all she has accomplished in her life so far.
- Daughter#2- Alex: Graduated from college and is living her life along with Beth (they are actually best friends but we've basically "adopted" her into our family and is more like family to us.)
- Son- Zane: In high school, is so full of life and is quite the comedian like his dad. Sometimes he has to be reined in a bit, but for the most part, he is a very respectful, loving young man who cares for others and, if forced, will do chores around the place. If his privilege of driving his dirt bike is on the line, he's all about doing whatever he needs to do to stay in good graces.